TOPIC OF THIS ARTICLE: What turns a man off
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What makes a man resent in a relationship or marriage?
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What turns a man off in a relationship? 1、 Mainly for girls before marriage
What turns a man off? 01. Quarrel.
There are many couples because of small things, and then magnify, everywhere and friends and family talk, complain, finally friends and family are strongly opposed to this love, leading to break up, or even divorce.
What turns a man off? 02. Like to break up to achieve their own purpose.
If you two are not suitable for girls to carry out moral kidnapping, in order to achieve some of your own purposes, this kind of beginning boys will compromise and save, but the wolf story, we all know, every time break up, will let each other down once, until finally let him hate no longer love you, not willing to save.
What turns a man off? 03. Contact your suitor or ex too often
This kind of behavior is more selfish, will make men very disgusted. Although girls say that you are friends, in fact, you are leaving a way for yourself. No boys want their girlfriends to do this. Girls don’t like their boyfriends to do this.
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What turns a man off? 04. Think love, marriage stability, too lazy behavior.
Girls don’t tidy up their appearance, although boys don’t care about it at first, but over time, for example, girls are too sloppy, the family is too messy, and they don’t share any housework, which will make boys gradually become disgusted.
What turns a man off? 05. I like to shirk responsibility when meeting problems, and I don’t know how to undertake my obligations.
Put all your own things to your boyfriend, and think it is: if I do everything by myself, what else can I do with my boyfriend. What’s more, it’s my job if my boyfriend does well. If he doesn’t do well, he’s a waste. He’s stupid.
What turns a man off? 06. I like to compare him with others
Always take what other people’s boyfriends do for their girlfriends, how excellent other people’s boyfriends are, how rich other people’s boyfriends are, and then do verbal harm to your own boyfriends. Although the idea of some girls is that they want their boyfriends to cherish themselves more and work harder, in fact, most girls who do this will be disgusted by boys and will be broken up.
What turns a man off? 07. Over vanity
For example, some girls like to ask for gifts from their boyfriends. In fact, this is understandable. However, if it is beyond the financial ability of their boyfriends, or if the frequency is too high, boys will question whether the relationship is money or love. There are also girls who are willing to use all their belongings or even credit cards to buy luxury goods, which is beyond their ability, and they will also be regarded as vanity by boys.
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What turns a man off? 08. Suspicious
This suspicion is not to suspect that his boyfriend is cheating, but his own lack of security and self-confidence. For example, if the other party is in a meeting or working overtime, they may suspect that the other party is lying. As long as the other party does not reply to their message in time, the girl will open the doubt mode. This kind of feeling will be very tired, which is also disgusted by the boy.
What turns a man off? 09. Lies, lies involving the bottom line
Such as concealing their love experience, marriage experience, age and other issues.
What turns a man off? 10. Selfishness in life
Regard one’s own interests as the most important, one must be happy when one is happy, and the other must not be happy when one is unhappy. But also for their own convenience at the expense of each other’s greater inconvenience. Or what they want to do, the other party, whether busy or not, must first focus on their own things. Such feelings, the other side will feel that girls selfish, not sensible, only love themselves.
What turns a man off? 11. Too much control
What is excessive control? Specific performance is to ask the other party unlimited love you, the other party to all your services, the other party to all your consideration. Then arrange each other’s life, interfere with each other’s work, and demand each other’s behavior. I don’t care what boys think and think it’s the root of love.
What turns a man off? 12. Over conceited
Some girls in love, always think that they super understand each other, understand what they think for each other, understand what they think for each other. In the long run, the other party thinks you are unreasonable and self-centered. However, girls still think that they are right, their way is the other side like.
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What turns a man off? 13. Moral kidnapping
Some girls pay more attention to commitment. For example, when two people are in a good relationship, they will say some intimate words or future development words. But when they are in a bad relationship, girls like to use a certain thing or sentence in the past as a weapon to question or ask each other. You know, emotion in different states is to say different words, just like in a quarrel to say cruel words. Don’t take the past nice words as a way to ask the other party if you have said cruel words.
What turns a man off? 14. Often emotional or out of control
This kind of problem is more common. Many girls are easy to lose control of their emotions when they quarrel. They beat and scold crazily. After quarreling, they throw things, smash their mobile phones, delete all love photos, call each other’s parents, and do harm to themselves. And you have to wait until you are comfortable to let off steam. This brings great fear and disgust to boys.
What turns a man off? 15. Emotional abuse, silence
Quarrels like to solve problems with emotional abuse rather than from the root. Or delete the contact information of the other party directly. This way may work at the beginning, boys will humble summation, but later is basically found that the boyfriend has no love.
What turns a man off in a relationship? 2、What turns a guy off? Mainly for married girls (similar, but different)
1. Often quarrel and divorce
2. Over ego
3. Don’t understand her husband’s pressure, keep pressure
4. I don’t do my duty in my marriage. I give everything to my husband. I live too selfishly
5. Ask too much of each other and too little of yourself
6. High consumption beyond economic capacity
7. Too many heterosexual friends, and pay no attention to scale
8. Extramarital affair
9. Discordant sexual life between husband and wife
10. Husband and wife sex life is too monotonous, do not communicate
11. Refuse to establish common interests with husband
12. Too much complaining, too much negative energy
13. Lack of care, support and recognition for her husband
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