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How You Been Answer: YES Or NO?

How you been answer when you found out you were in a relationship with a married man?

The love you share is so intense, unlike any other love either of you have ever experienced, perhaps more intense than anyone in the entire history of the world has ever experienced. The problem is that he already has another woman in his life. How can you ask a man to leave his wife or girlfriend?

No matter what you say, being with a man who has a master is the epitome of complexity.




Would a man leave his wife for another woman?

Men make a lot of promises to their lovers. How have you been answer? He says he’ll leave his wife, but only after he’s done with the hard work, or once she gets a raise, or once the school year is over, or …….

The problem is that he said these things over and over again for a long time and nothing happened. You’re frustrated, to say the least.

How do you know if a man will leave his wife for you? There are several ways to tell.

A good sign is if he spends more time with you than he does with his wife, actively plans to see you again, and cares about your feelings. How have you been response? If he does these things, there is a good chance he will leave his wife. But don’t jump to conclusions too soon.

How have you been answer? The truth is, most men don’t leave their wives for their lovers. So, how do you get a man who cheats on his wife behind her back to keep all the promises he made and eventually leave his wife for you?

Read more: 10 Goodbye Emotional Break Up Letter To Boyfriend




How to get a man to leave his wife for you:


1. Stop having sex with him – How you been answer

Or this is the best you have. And so does he. And the idea of giving up is devastating.

Or maybe you think that if you continue to give him this exciting sex life, he will one day realize he can’t live without you and come home and tell his wife he’s leaving. Sorry, that’s not going to happen.

How have you been reply? You know the saying, “You can have it both ways”? That’s what’s happening here.

No matter what they say, a man’s motivation is primarily sexual. If he can have sex with you whenever he wants and still be securely married and living at home, why wouldn’t he?

Breaking up is hard, and divorce is even harder. It’s bad for the finances, the kids and the lifestyle. If he can have sex outside of the marriage and still be with his wife, he will. No matter what he says.


2. Don’t call him up – How you been answer

How you been answer? You have great communication with each other. He tells you how wonderful it is to finally find someone he can really talk to. Someone who really understands him. He lives for those calls and they make him happy.

Because of course, like all the women you tried to save from him, you love the role you play. A woman who loves him and supports him, a woman who can be his life jacket when he’s drowning.

How have you been response? You think, “If I can be there for him, support him, love him, one day he will realize we are meant to be together and he will come home and leave his wife.” Or, he could use you as a life raft to prevent drowning.

Don’t kid yourself. All the support you give him won’t make him wake up and appreciate you. He’s a man, and that man feels entitled to you.

Note: Don’t interact on social media either.

3. Don’t add to him by your presence – How you been answer

Some women truly believe that if they stop seeing their lovers, he will forget about them and never leave his wife. This is not true.

How you been answer? You are a life preserver for your lover. You give him love, sex, companionship, and relief from his unhappy marriage. If you suddenly leave, he will lose his safety device and start missing you.

Men want what they can’t have. That’s the nature of the hunter. So, if you don’t let him see you, he will miss you and even cherish you more in your absence. Maybe, just maybe, consider leaving his wife and getting you back.

Hopefully, by now you have figured out what it takes to get the man you love to leave the woman he is committed to. You make yourself leave completely and totally is the only way.



Here’s the thing: your lover either leaves his partner or he doesn’t. Nothing you can say or do will make him do so until he is ready. If he ever is ready.

So if you’re frustrated with the life you’re leading and the other woman’s life is always waiting for her man to be available, you have to make a choice.

You can stand and wait for him for a long time and be his life raft and sex partner. How you been answer? Maybe, one day, he will be yours. But he most likely never will be. Or, you can dig your pride out of the dark closet you’ve been hiding in, muster the courage, and come out of his life. If you do, you’ll show him that you’re a woman worth fighting for, not someone who sits around doing nothing and making sure all is well with her man.

I’m Jocelyn, and I hope you will all meet someone who loves you. If you have emotional problems, you can ask me for advice. If you are single, maybe you can meet him/her on Bothlive.

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