Would I rather be feared or loved?
Are you afraid of being loved or do you want to be loved.
People who are generally afraid of being loved are.
afraid of being let down.
Also afraid of letting down others.
Would I rather be feared or loved? In the face of love, some people, once he moved his heart, will rush to approach.
However, there are people, although he always yelled want to fall in love, but never take the initiative to go near who, even if someone else took the initiative to him, than to give others a chance, he will only instinctively refuse.
I can’t say why, he is very eager to fall in love, and at the same time afraid of falling in love.
Would I rather be feared or loved the office? When there is no target, he seems to be more eager than anyone else, once there is a target, he only wants to push others out.
This kind of behavior, although he also knows very bad, but just can not change, it is difficult to get up the courage, but also very difficult to make changes.
Like this kind of person, he will be afraid, in other people’s eyes, that seems hard to understand, but in fact, he has his own reasons.
Feeling that you are not good enough and do not deserve to be loved by others.
Would I rather be feared or loved? Survival in the world, everyone’s body, there will be a lot of shortcomings, there is no doubt about it.
However, some people even if there are more problems, he knows how to accept themselves, and then believe that they still deserve to be loved, deserve to be put in a person’s heart, deserve to have a good relationship.
Although it is the same for everyone, it should have such knowledge and such confidence, but some people, he is not.
Would I rather be feared or loved? The actual fact is that there are some people, either because of their family of origin, or because of their previous experiences, he will infinitely magnify their own shortcomings, feel that they do not look good enough, do not earn enough, bad temper, do not deserve to be loved by a person.
Because in his heart there is too much sense of unworthiness, so when you meet someone you like, as well as people who like themselves, than again, also want to fight for themselves, he will only instinctively choose to avoid, avoid their own true feelings, but also to avoid each other’s feelings.
Would I rather be feared or loved? He could not believe that someone so bad as himself would be able to accept his imperfections and be willing to treat himself with sincerity. For a long time, he has been living in such a confinement, others can not go in, and he does not want to come out.
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It feels like love is a lot of trouble and I’m afraid I can’t handle it.
When there is a certain age, a person even if they have never loved, but also through their parents, through the people around them, through the TV series, etc., for love, have a certain understanding and knowledge.
Would I rather be feared or loved? At this time, if a person receives some negative information, like hearing all the mutual denigration between lovers, see all the bickering between lovers, for love, he may have a very bad impression.
Although he should understand that others have a bad time, that does not mean that he will only do so, but it is likely that he will only be directly scared by other people’s love, think love and marriage are just so, nothing good.
Would I rather be feared or loved? Therefore, because the other party often make themselves angry, afraid that they can not always and each other to accommodate, afraid that they can not afford the responsibility of love, afraid that each other can only be a tragic end, he simply refused to love.
When a person, that although a little lonely, but he can still bear.
Would I rather be feared or loved? In his heart, he felt lonely, that than a person in love, and a person married, easier to endure, that at least the more quiet, but also more free.
Fear that the other party is not sincere enough, they will be hurt.
Would I rather be feared or loved? Love a person, who will want a sincere, can be replaced by another sincere. In reality, too much sincerity and pay, but simply can not exchange each other’s kindness, but only to be disappointed.
Sometimes, even for a while, as if they are quite happy with each other, but when the time is long, everything has changed.
And it is because the heart is too little, let down too much, sometimes, even if a person is very heartwarming, but also still will be very retreat, worried about their very serious, but the other party is just playing, worried about all they give, but will not have a good ending.
Would I rather be feared or loved? When too worried about the other party is not sincere, but also too afraid that they will be scarred, so in the heart of the time, he stupid, has not been able to do a good response to each other, often just let each other feel that he does not mean anything.
Finally, the person who came close, after trying, found that they simply could not knock his heart out, so they had to leave alone.
Would I rather be feared or loved? Over time, he was never hurt in any way, but also never had a real relationship, year after year, people around him are married, he still only himself.
The person who is afraid of falling in love, he is afraid, often not love itself, just for love, he is very negative.
Whenever he touches love, he can instinctively retreat, as if only to shrink himself in the shell, he can be at ease.
Would I rather be feared or loved? The actual fact is, it is very difficult for him to break through himself, unless one day, he is willing to break free, there is also so a person, do not mind this he, willing to guide him, let him believe in love a little.
Life or, feelings or, everyone has only this life, everyone should still be brave.
I’m Jocelyn, and I hope you will all meet someone who loves you. If you have emotional problems, you can ask me for advice. If you are single, maybe you can meet him/her on Bothlive.