What are some signs your man is texting another woman?
His behavior changes, but you just don’t know why. Then someone talks to him in the middle of the night and he doesn’t have a good explanation.
You are right to be concerned.
First, look for the first signs that he’s cheating, such as hiding his phone, or working late more often, or going out with “the guys”.
You may sense something inside him that you can recognize, resonate with, and maybe even work through before it happens. But this will only happen if you don’t let him get defensive. Concentration is key here.
The most important thing you can do is to talk to him in a non-confrontational way.
How do you know when your partner is cheating on you?
1. He deviates from his predictable daily behavior.
He said, “My wife knew I was cheating before there was any real evidence. She said she should have been able to tell.”
Signs your man is texting another woman: After spending months (or even years) with someone, you know their typical behavior. You know how they behave in certain situations, and when they behave differently, you want an explanation – if it’s not cheating, it’s something else real and concrete.
His excuse: He was reading his work messages and the news. The only problem is that his phone bill shows a completely different story – frequent calls with another woman’s number.
2. His moods were unpredictable.
He said, “I was looking for a reason to leave, but it was hard to keep coming up with new excuses. So, I just started arguing with her”.
Signs your man is texting another woman: Instant anger or being too friendly are red flags. He has no real reason to leave, so he has to create one. New items, such as him going out all the time but not mentioning it until after the fact, are an obvious example.
If he’s going somewhere else and has no reason to hide it, he’s likely to talk to you about it.
3. There is a rapid change in his weight or appearance.
He says, “I lost over 10 pounds in a week after I started the affair. It was crazy.”
Signs your man is texting another woman: Men who cheat change physically. Their waistline flab disappears, their posture changes, and their muscles return to their original state. It’s the body’s primal way of preparing for courtship; he’s preparing himself to attract a mate.
In addition, the cheating man begins to pay more attention to himself and takes great pride in his appearance. He suddenly starts ironing his clothes, combing his hair, and shaving daily, which he didn’t do before, especially when he wasn’t taking you out.
4. His musical tastes changed overnight.
Signs your man is texting another woman: I never really liked jazz,” he says. But I was with this woman; we were enjoying it together. I started listening to it all the time, just to think about her.”
There’s nothing wrong with trying new things. But when it comes out of the blue and he leaves you out of the change, it’s a warning sign that something isn’t right and that he may be cheating on you.
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5. He remembers things you don’t, or forgets details.
He says, “I was talking to my wife about a movie we saw and laughed at one of the scenes. She wasn’t laughing. I asked, ‘What? Don’t you remember? ‘ Then she told me that we hadn’t seen it together.”
Signs your man is texting another woman: As he spends more and more time with you and his lover, his memories of his time with his lover and his memories of his time with you will begin to blur. The schedule will be disrupted and he will not be able to remember exactly where he was on any given day.
The time he spends with another woman is completely unexplained – there is usually no explanation.
6. He suddenly needs a lot of personal space.
He says, “I start closing the door more often when I’m working at home, saying the kids are noisy or I just need to work in peace. I was talking to my lover online.”
It’s normal to take time for yourself. But when it gets out of the normal pattern or becomes more frequent, it can be a sign that something else is going on.
Signs your man is texting another woman: Going to work early, leaving work late, hanging up suddenly, and taking a lot of personal calls from “relatives” are also red flags.
7. He no longer desires you sexually.
He says, “I started my affair and I wanted sex, but not from my wife. She knows something is wrong because our sex life has always been very active.”
Signs your man is texting another woman: If your regular or familiar bedroom life suddenly shifts without an accompanying discussion of what he wants or needs differently, this is a big warning sign of cheating.
8. His sex drive has increased dramatically.
After my lover and I started dating, I started sleeping with my wife more frequently,” he says. She told me that I was really aggressive in bed and that she had never seen me like that before.”
Signs your man is texting another woman: All of the men I asked reported experiencing a significant rise in testosterone, which indicated a renewed sense of confidence. They felt strong, manly and masculine, as if every woman wanted them. Their self-esteem grows with each passing day.
I’m Jocelyn, and I hope you will all meet someone who loves you. If you have emotional problems, you can ask me for advice. If you are single, maybe you can meet him/her on Bothlive.