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I Will Love You Till The End Of Time: Love And Betrayal

“I will love you till the end of time.”

“I will only love you forever.”

Just listen to this sentence, don’t believe it.

Eight novels about love and betrayal. Human beings are too good at self-deception. Since they don’t believe in the so-called love, they still can’t stop yearning for love, the thirst for dedicated and loyal love. Most people get married because of the longing for such love. But is such a vision unrealistic? So what is the most realistic approach? Not getting married, or colliding in disloyal love?


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I Will Love You Till The End Of Time: Love And Betrayal

“I will love you till the end of time.”

“I will only love you forever.”

Just listen to this sentence, don’t believe it.

Eight novels about love and betrayal.

Human beings are too good at self-deception. Since they don’t believe in the so-called love, they still can’t stop yearning for love, the thirst for dedicated and loyal love. Most people get married because of the longing for such love. But is such a vision unrealistic? So what is the most realistic approach? Not getting married, or colliding in disloyal love?

  • I love you till the end of time
  • I will love you until the end of time
  • I love you until the end of time
  • I will love you to the end of time

How credible are these words?

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time, IS THAT TRUE?

With these questions, we return to literature. This time we have selected eight books, which undoubtedly touch on the question of “what is the course of disloyal love?” What should we face when we betray or be betrayed by our lover? Reading these eight books may help us better understand human nature, love, and marriage.

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El amor en los tiempos del cólera
Author: [Colombia] Garcia Márquez

There is a story in the book. The gentle family of Urbino and Fermina fell in love with Miss Lynch, a doctor of theology after they got married. The two were bound by their respective family reputations and social status, and they were extremely careful every time they met. Marquez described this relationship as absurd and true: it was crazy at first, but after the madness, Urbino and Miss Lynch realized the danger. Especially Urbino, he couldn’t face the scandal that would ruin him. So the agreed meeting at five o’clock every day is both an irresistible temptation and a fear to escape. Later, Urbino’s car parked in front of Miss Lynch’s house became more and more eye-catching, and the time for the two to meet became shorter and shorter…

After winning the Nobel Prize, Marquez wrote this “Love in the Time of Cholera”. People are used to using adjectives like “epic” to describe Marquez’s works. He captured so many faces of love, loyal, secretive, rough, shy, platonic, slutty, fleeting, life and death dependent.

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time, IS THAT TRUE?

The different attitudes of men and women towards love determine their intolerance in love, but “love is always love no matter when and where, but the closer you are to death, the stronger the love will be.”

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time
【Excerpts】

Every time, the two of them had no time to say anything, Miss Lin Qi saw her lover hurriedly come, she quickly got into the bedroom. While waiting for him, she will prepare in advance and wear a large skirt…without underwear or anything, because she believes that doing things easily can help him overcome his psychological fear… He followed her to the bedroom panting, sweating profusely, and as soon as he entered the room he threw everything on the floor, palms, medicine cabinet, and Panama hat, and then panicked and made love, pants It only faded to the knees, and in order to avoid trouble, even the buttons of the coat were not unfastened, the pocket watch chain was put in the vest, the shoes were still worn, and everything was worn. What I was always thinking about was not how to have fun, but to leave as soon as possible. She had just entered the lonely tunnel and ended up in a situation where she was forced to go on a diet and abstinence, because he had already started to fasten the buttons again, and looked exhausted, as if she had just made a peerless love on the line of life and death, but in fact He just completed the physical part of the ritual in love. But he knows the rhythm: it happens to be the time of intravenous injection in routine treatment.

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time
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The Complete Works of Zhang Ailing
Author: Zhang Ailing

“I Will Love You Till The End Of Time, IS THAT TRUE?”

Married Wang Jiaorui fell in love with Tong Zhenbao, she didn’t care about anything and wanted to be his wife, but Tong Zhenbao finally rejected her for her own image, and instead married Meng Yanli, whom she didn’t love. After marriage, the two of them also got married. Find joy in each. Eileen Chang is top-notch in writing feelings. She sees humanity so transparently, and she touches the cold bones of love. “Love” is like a poignant female ghost in her writing, which is beyond expectation. Floating around, sucking people into the gutter. As she herself summed up: a happy marriage is one in a million, and there are broken hearts everywhere.

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time
【Excerpts】

Maybe every man has two women like this, at least two. After marrying a red rose, over time, the red one has changed into a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one is still “the moonlight before the bed.” When you marry a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice sticky on your clothes, but the red one is A cinnabar mole on the heart.

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Анна Каренина
Author: Leo Tolstoy

“I Will Love You Till The End Of Time, IS THAT TRUE?”

Anna Karenina was born into a nobleman and married Karenin in accordance with the marriage system of the nobility and the church. Karenin was twenty years older than Anna, but the official career was prosperous, and he became a high official very early. He is hypocritical and cold, enamored with official careers, and is a full-fledged official machine. Anna was the opposite of him. She was warm, kind and full of life, but after marrying Karenin, her anger was suppressed. Even so, Anna is still full of love for life and still has a vague vision of love. At that time, Russia’s old feudal ethics and morals were being challenged by the liberation of the Western bourgeoisie’s individuality and freedom of love. A woman with rich sentiment and personality like Anna was naturally unable to remain unaffected. The handsome aristocratic youth fell in love, unable to extricate himself, and finally performed a heart-rending tragedy and died tragically under the wheels of the train.

“I am in charge of justice, and I will avenge it.” Tolstoy quoted this sentence from the “Bible” as the headline to express his sense of contradiction to Anna. He sympathized with and condemned the character in his pen. From the perspective of religion and ethics, he thought she was guilty because she could not restrain her feelings and blindly pursue freedom and love. But his condemnation of Anna was measured. It can be said that he sympathized more than condemned. He couldn’t bear to criticize Anna directly, and he wouldn’t let anyone make irresponsible remarks to her. The preface of the translation also mentioned that what Tolstoy really hates is this society. It is the official figures of Karenin and his like, because they control and enslave the unfortunate like Anna, and kill the beautiful like Anna without seeing blood. human nature. In addition to Karenin, Tolstoy compared the hypocrisy, insignificance, cruelty, and selfishness of the entire upper class to Anna’s sincerity, cheerfulness, kindness, and kindness. Here, Tolstoy’s love and hatred are very clear.

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time
【Excerpts】

“I think women in the world can be divided into two kinds…no…to be precise: there is only one kind of true woman…the kind of depraved and lovely woman. I have never seen it, and I don’t think there will be any.”

“You have to understand that there are two women now: one always insists on her rights, that is, insists on your love, but you can’t give it to her; the other sacrifices everything for you, but asks nothing for you. What should you do? What should you do? This is a tragedy.”

“I think love… is the two kinds of love that Plato said in “The Banquet”. These two different kinds of love are the touchstones for people. Some people only understand this kind of love, and some only know the other. Those People who only understand non-Platonic love can’t talk about tragedy or tragedy at all. There is no tragedy in that kind of love.’Thank you for satisfying me, goodbye!’-this is all tragedies. As for Plato, There is no tragedy in romantic love because this love is always pure and flawless.

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Madame Bovary
Author: Flaubert

“Madame Bovary” is the first work published by Flaubert and his most influential masterpiece in the world. The protagonist Emma received aristocratic education in the monastery and read many romantic novels. She looked down on her husband who was a township doctor and dreamed of legendary love. But her first lover was a morally corrupt squire, and her second lover was a selfish and cowardly clerk. Her affair did not bring her happiness, but allowed the speculators to exploit her, making her an object of exploitation by loan sharks. In the end, her debt was piled up like a mountain and could not be repaid. Her husband’s miscarriage had already been squandered by her, and her lover refused to extend a rescuing hand. She had no choice but to take poison and commit suicide.

“I Will Love You Till The End Of Time, IS THAT TRUE?”

The tragedy of Madame Bovary is the inevitable consequence of the conflict between romantic fantasy and real life. It is difficult to say whether Flaubert criticized romanticism more or slashed real life more severely. His criticism of the former is precisely an indictment of the latter. Emma is a disdainful woman, but subjectively, she aspires to be noble more than the people around her. She hopes her husband will do something, and she hopes that a smart and brave man will be admired by her, but there is only some short-sighted, profit-seeking, heroic bourgeois around her. She has weaknesses, faults, she is vain and unrealistic, but she is not the culprit, she has never harmed others, but people often harm her… Flaubert wrote Emma, not so much a description of a woman who has lost her feet. Rather, it is a romanticist who has been brutally destroyed in real life. Emma’s contradictions and pains, her dreams and pursuits, and the deception, fooling, and betrayal she has suffered, are all deeply imprinted by the times. So the author said: “At this very moment, my poor Madame Bovary is suffering and crying in twenty villages in France at the same time.”

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time
【Excerpts】

The crackling sparks of memories are more flickering than the fires left by travelers on the snowy grounds of the Russian prairie. She rushed over, squatted to the side, caring carefully, fiddled with the fire to be extinguished, looking forward and backward to see if there was anything that could make the fire flourish; so the farthest memories and recent meetings, what she felt and what she imagined Of, her hopeless expectations of joy, the happiness of her dead branches choking in the wind, her morality of hard work, her disillusioned hope, family sacrifices, she chooses everything Come over, pick it up, get together, and warm her melancholy.

However, I don’t know if it is due to insufficient supply or excessive accumulation, and the flames are weakened. The parting gradually extinguished the love, and over time, the melancholy also suffocated. The gray sky that had previously illuminated her by this firelight is now getting darker and gradually disappearing. When she was dizzy and even disgusted with her husband’s heart, she also turned upside down, as a manifestation of missing her lover; even the disgusting burns, she was confused, and she saw it as a lingering affection. But the gusty wind kept blowing, and the enthusiasm burned to ashes. It was irretrievable, and the sun was nowhere to be seen. The dark night, in all directions, was heavily locked, and she felt that she had nowhere to go, the chill was pressing, and her bones were cold.

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Laughter in the Dark
Author: [American] Vladimir Nabokov

Obinas fell in love with the theater usher Margot at first sight. Margot, who “has a magical love to watch movies”, dreams of becoming a movie star, when she is convinced that he belongs to the class that can “provide the conditions for her to be on stage and screen.” Later, he decided to associate with him. The banquet held by Obinas to entertain the stars created an opportunity for Margot to reunite with his former lover, Rex, which formed a triangular relationship and ended in tragedy.

“I Will Love You Till The End Of Time, IS THAT TRUE?”

It is also about middle-aged men falling in love with young girls. Nabokov’s novel is more experimental and has a cinematic aesthetic. Tolerance of human weakness is Nabokov’s consistent style. He once said when talking about “Mrs. Bovary”, “A romantic person lives in an unreal world spiritually or emotionally. Whether this person is deep or shallow depends on the quality of his soul. “It means that one’s emotions should not be measured and restrained by moral standards, and the quality of the soul should come from whether the current love is sincere and enthusiastic.

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time
【Excerpts】

For the first time in the year he lived with Margot, Obinas clearly felt that his life was covered with a speck of despicable dirt. The goddess of fate was clearly urging him to wake up, and he heard a thunderous call…Yes, if he goes to the funeral of his daughter, he will always return to his wife…Thinking that he will be with him He shuddered with his old and frail wife. In his opinion, such a future is like the long, dark, dusty passage with a nailed wooden box or empty traffic.

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grudge
Author: Zhong Xiaoyang

The story of “Hate” begins with the passing of the old lady Huang, a family of jewelry. Middle school teacher Yu Yiping received a call from his aunt and wealthy businessman Huang Jingyue’s wife Yu Zhen, then he opened up the inextricable relationship between him and his cousin Bao Zuan, Huang’s eldest daughter Jin Zuan, his son Jing Yao, and the ambiguous young man Cheng Han. The protagonist Yu Yiping is involved in the family struggle of the wealthy Huang family, experiencing all kinds of entanglements of love, hatred, and contention. In order to protect his love, he mistakenly jumped into traps… In this world that does not belong to him, Yiping hesitated and lost. , And then walked towards the ending he was destined to unavoidable. In this game, is he the victim or the perpetrator? He loved Jin Zuan so much, but later learned that the child in Jin Zuan’s belly was not his own, and his crumbling tower had long since disappeared. During Jin Zuan’s pregnancy, he was around two other women, even he didn’t know what he was doing.

“I Will Love You Till The End Of Time, IS THAT TRUE?”

Although this is not a novel about extramarital affairs, this plot well portrays the protagonist Yiping’s change of mindset toward despair. In this “Legend of Hate”, which is close to being rewritten, the human world in Zhong Xiaoyang’s works presents the vivid characters of that era, a three-dimensional Hong Kong.

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time
【Excerpts】

Possession is a wonderful thing. Once a thing belongs to oneself, no matter how much unhappiness it brings, people will invent various reasons to keep it.

The fact is that this experience exhausted him physically and mentally. I just want to stay away from people and all their thoughts, motives, and plans. Something has changed. In the past, he took it for granted and relied on it to establish his outlook on life, understanding, and interpretation of the world, and he found that it was all his assumptions. It can be said that he has never understood the world, and this discovery process may have started a long time ago, perhaps from the first lie of the Golden Diamond. “I Will Love You Till The End Of Time, IS THAT TRUE?”

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A Bit on the Side
Author: [Ireland] William Trevor

“Derailment” is a collection of short stories published by William Trevor in 2004. Twelve stories, a lost world. This short story of the same name tells about a divorced middle-aged woman who is still charming and leads a free life. When she told her extramarital lover in a calm tone, it caused unease in the other party.

“I Will Love You Till The End Of Time, IS THAT TRUE?”

The ending of the story is that the two people still choose to separate. After a brief meeting, there is no possibility of meeting again. But the two protagonists’ aftertastes of their past relationships are not blindly full of bitterness, but also mixed with understanding and tolerance. As the last paragraph said, “Today, their love has not been damaged in any way, unscathed—the two said goodbye to each other. As they walked far away, they all agreed with such an ending; but they didn’t realize that the future will not be as bleak and bleak as it seems now, and there will still be some things brought about by the tacit understanding between them in the future. That goodness, satisfaction, and gratitude will still have themselves in the future-it is this period of love that was once a sea, which turned her and him into their appearances.”

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time
【Excerpts】

Feeling grievances about a marriage that has survived in name, and being troubled by how others think of your loved one, and feeling uneasy about it, both of which are far away from the essence of love itself. Although they are no longer accompanied by each other, they will grow old together, and wrinkles will spread raging in her face;

Due to the teasing of fate, their inner desires will fail, and their eyes will become dull and gloomy. At this moment, this blooming and graceful prime time will be covered and obliterated by the remnants of the old years. At that time, when they are rare to see and meet again, they will look back at the dying years of the past and get warmth from it. And consolation.

Not only today, but for a period much longer than this day, she is ready to face such an ending, because, undoubtedly, you have to be prepared. From the very beginning, she was ready; from the very beginning, she had a clear and firm decision, and never tried to recover any brokenness from the ruins of feelings.

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time
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Conversations with Friends
Author: [Ireland] Sally Rooney

The 21-year-old Irish college girl Frances and his girlfriend Bobby met the famous female writer Melissa and her actor husband Nick. In bookstores, gardens, cafes, and apartment buildings, Frances and her old and new friends talked and talked, and the relationship between people may be closer or alienated. Unknowingly, Frances and Nick started an extramarital relationship that they knew would not be fruitful…

“I Will Love You Till The End Of Time, IS THAT TRUE?”

Unlike other novels about extramarital affairs, this novel is lighter, and at the same time portrays the complex emotional world of young people more delicately and truthfully. Through these writings, the back of the world in front of them is not so surprising and frightening. “I have a feeling: something in my life is over, and I no longer think of myself as a complete person or an ordinary person. I realize that my life will be full of mediocre physical pain, which is nothing special. Pain doesn’t make me special, and pretending that it’s not painful doesn’t make me special. Talking about it, or even writing about it doesn’t make it something useful. Nothing.”

I Will Love You Till The End Of Time
【Excerpts】

I started digging into the horns again. I focused on the places where I thought Nick was sorry for me, the cruel and ruthless words he said or hinted at so that I could hate him, thus justifiably defining my strong feelings for him as pure hate. But I realized that the only harm he did to me was to stop loving me, and he had every right to do so. In all other respects, he is both polite and thorough. Sometimes I think this is the worst pain I have ever experienced in my life, but it is also a very superficial pain. Any time he says something, it can be completely relieved and transformed into a brainless one. happy.

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