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How To Communicate With A Man Who Won’t Communicate

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate?

The most distant distance in the world

Not when I am beside you and you are playing with your phone

But when I tell you my heart

But you are as cold as ice.

In intimate relationships, the most common kind of “misunderstood communication” is “I think you understand”, we are influenced by a lot of film and literature, think that lovers should have a heart-to-heart effect.

 

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This type of communication disconnect often stems from two common misunderstandings in intimate relationships.

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate?

(1) If the other person really loves me, he must know what I need; instead, he either doesn’t love me enough or is intent on doing so.

(2) If I need to say something explicitly before the other person will do it, it means half as much if he does it.

For example, we hope to receive a heartfelt gift on Valentine’s Day, but we say, “No need to prepare a gift, just have a heart.

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? We actually want the other party to see through our little thoughts, ignore our concessions, and insist on preparing a generous gift, so as to show his sincerity.

We hope that the other person will understand our intentions without explicitly saying so, but we are caught in the cycle of hint-expectation-disappointment again and again.

So we think that the other person is not able to interpret his or her feelings accurately, which means that he or she.

 

Doesn’t take my words to heart.

Knows exactly what I want, but refuses to do it, on purpose!

Can not understand me, we do not have a tacit understanding.

And the other person feels wronged, thinking that we.

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? Not willing to tell his true feelings, is not enough to trust him .

In fact, have you found that many of the misunderstandings are from their own “think”, but the world is no need to say that you can express the demand, even your closest people can not guess all your feelings. If such communication failures and malicious interpretations are repeated over time, it is easy to make each other less happy and even further apart.

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? This communication barrier is actually quite common when applied to life.

Read more: About Love And Jealousy: Love Is Not Jealous

 

 

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How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? When we have a bad day at work, we want the other person to.

1, the other party to be able to give themselves a space to be able to be quiet.

2, the other party to be able to give emotional support, rather than simply reasoning.

3, the other party can give themselves practical solutions to help solve the problem.

 

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? When we feel that the other party has done something that is unacceptable to us, we want the other party to.

1, the other party to be able to recognize their mistakes in a timely manner.

2, the other party to be able to give their own apology and comfort.

3, the other party can communicate effectively with themselves to prevent the same mistake from happening next time.

But this thousand words when we do not have the reason to tell each other the truth, but only into a “baby, I am fine” “baby, do not worry” “baby, you do not worry”. It is difficult for the other person to get your real needs from your words.

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? In a gender relationship, what we need is a question we have to answer for ourselves. If you can’t even identify your own needs, it’s certainly hard for the other person to truly meet those needs.

When we have sorted out our needs, we should next be prepared to express ourselves. This expression is not to spit out the whole thing in one breath hoping that the other person will accept and understand it, but to simply prepare so that the other person can understand their needs.

 

 

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? The expression of such needs should avoid the following three points.

1, Blame

When we express their needs, incidentally express their dissatisfaction with the other party, with an emotional tone to communicate, that is natural to get what you want.

2Order

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? We are expressing needs, rather than forcefully hope that the other party in accordance with their own ideas to do, you are communicating with your loved ones, not and robots in giving orders.

3Hint

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? Many people feel embarrassed to directly identify, always hope to use hints, and then the other party can not understand exactly what they mean, they think that the other party is not interested in them. In fact, it is your hints that make him add a lot of subjective consciousness to your ideas, and naturally communication can not be in place.

 

 

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So, how can we communicate effectively?

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? For example, when we are not doing well at work and want to be comforted and helped by the other party, we can exchange the following statements.

Replace “I’m fine” with “Honey, can you give me some time to be quiet, my mind is in turmoil”.

Replace “Don’t worry” with “Honey, your comfort and support will make me feel much better.”

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? When we are in conflict and want to communicate with each other, we can swap the following statements.

 

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? Replace “You’re annoying” with “Honey, we’re both in a bad place right now, can you give us a little privacy to ease our emotions?”

Replace “you see what you do” with “honey, I think this thing to my feelings is very bad, I am very sad for this sad, I hope you can also understand my feelings”

How to communicate with a man who won’t communicate? In this way, not only can the two people’s problems can be effectively resolved as soon as possible, we will also be surprised to find that he turned out to love you so much.

The real understanding with the loved one, I think, is to be able to tell each other openly what they want, and convinced that once the other person understands, will certainly do their best to help them.

 

I’m Jocelyn, and I hope you will all meet someone who loves you. If you have emotional problems, you can ask me for advice. If you are single, maybe you can meet him/her on Bothlive.

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