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A Good Way to Make a Man Afraid of Losing you: Keep a Distance from Him

How do i make him worry about losing me?

Women always think that if you like a person, you should stick to him and stay with him 24 hours a day.

Maybe the two people in love are in such a state of “not separating you and me”. They are inseparable no matter where they go. Wechat is a 24-hour chat mode. If you don’t see him for a minute, you will feel unaccustomed.

 

But when this way of getting along with each other becomes a habit, you will become worried about gains and losses. If one day the other party fails to reply to your Wechat in time or is not with you, you will be suspicious and afraid that he will leave you.

And if this goes on like this, both sides will feel tired, because even if both sides love each other very much, two people are still independent individuals. If they are bound all the time, without a moment’s breath, sooner or later, he will leave you.

Even if you love a person very much, you should understand the importance of distance. Don’t get too close to him. Don’t stick to him all the time. Give each other some space, and your feelings will last longer.

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A good way to make a man afraid of losing you is to keep a distance from him.

Love should have a sense of space

I know that men and women who meet love are afraid of losing each other. They are afraid that they can’t stay with each other for a long time, so they will choose to stick to each other, especially women.

If one day a woman can’t get news from him, she will be fidgety and don’t know what he is doing or who he is with. At this time, the woman may call him all the time and send messages. If the other party doesn’t reply, she will be more suspicious of him.

Worrying about gains and losses may be the norm in love, but such doubts will only make each other’ s feelings more and more unstable, and even make him lose confidence in you.

Once Xiaojing was such a woman. When she liked a person, she would give her all her time and energy, and all her free time was given to him. Similarly, she also hoped that the other party could give her all her time.

But sometimes there are special circumstances, which are not guaranteed by him. For example, he will work overtime and get together with friends. In this case, she will be very angry if he can’t reserve more time for Xiaojing. She always says that he doesn’t love her any more and is unwilling to accompany her.

Women should have their own things to do.

In a relationship, women will unconsciously contact men every day, and women will always be too close to him, because they are free in space. If you are busy every day and have your own circle and career, you won’t want to pester him all day.

Weiwei is such a woman, even if she has been married and has children, she still has her own things to do, and is busier than her husband every day.

She is busy learning and growing up, and has her own career. Her daily life is not only for children, but also for her hobbies. She has no time to stick to her husband. Sometimes her husband wants to stick to her, and she has to schedule her time.

So Weiwei is not afraid of her husband leaving her, but her husband said to her again and again:”I can’t live without you, you should take some time to look at me!”

What kind of woman can make a man inseparable? It’s a woman like Wei Wei who has her own independent thoughts and her own things to do. She doesn’t stick to her husband all day long and revolves around her children.

If you always can’t help yourself, want to contact him, want to stay with him every day, then you can find something to do for yourself, you can be busy with your career or develop your own interests.

In addition to making him cherish you more, you can also improve yourself. When you get better and better, you will understand that only balanced love can be more perfect.

 

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It’s better to keep a sense of distance than to pester him

Sometimes, being too close may not be a good thing. Whether it is family affection, friendship or love, it needs a certain sense of distance, which is the secret to make the relationship long-term.

First of all, keeping a proper sense of distance will make him feel that you are not totally inseparable from him. In this way, he will feel nervous and cherish you more.

If you pester him every day, he will only feel that you can’t leave him, so he will not care about you, because he thinks “you can’t leave me anyway.” when he has such a thought, he will not be afraid of losing you. He will feel that you have been clinging to him, which is the performance of your love for him.

 

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In a relationship, you should occupy the dominant position and never be in a passive position. When you are passive, you will be led by his nose. No matter what he says or does, you dare not oppose it, because you are too afraid to lose him, and you will become the weak side.

If you want him to be afraid of losing you, and want him to be inseparable from you, you need to understand that you must have your own principles. If he repeatedly squanders your love for him, then give him up.

As Zhang Yuqi said: “my bottom line is that I’m not afraid to lose you.” if women have such confidence, they won’t worry about gain or loss. Doing so can make him understand the importance of you and make him more afraid of losing you.

Women should have their own things to do.

In a relationship, women will unconsciously contact men every day, and women will always be too close to him, because they are free in space. If you are busy every day and have your own circle and career, you won’t want to pester him all day.

Weiwei is such a woman, even if she has been married and has children, she still has her own things to do, and is busier than her husband every day.

She is busy learning and growing up, and has her own career. Her daily life is not only for children, but also for her hobbies. She has no time to stick to her husband. Sometimes her husband wants to stick to her, and she has to schedule her time.

So Weiwei is not afraid of her husband leaving her, but her husband said to her again and again:”I can’t live without you, you should take some time to look at me!”

What kind of woman can make a man inseparable? It’s a woman like Wei Wei who has her own independent thoughts and her own things to do. She doesn’t stick to her husband all day long and revolves around her children.

If you always can’t help yourself, want to contact him, want to stay with him every day, then you can find something to do for yourself, you can be busy with your career or develop your own interests.

In addition to making him cherish you more, you can also improve yourself. When you get better and better, you will understand that only balanced love can be more perfect.

 

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Epilogue

Every long-term love is inseparable from the sincerity of both sides. If you want to make him inseparable from you, all you need to do is to keep a proper distance with him.

You don’t have to worry that if you are too far away from him, the relationship between you will become weaker and weaker. On the contrary, love with a little distance will make him pay more attention to you and feel your importance.

Some women will only pester him all the time, or wait foolishly, but this is a wrong practice. The more you love him, the more you must restrain yourself, the more you love him, the more you should “stay away from him”. In this way, you can make him cherish this relationship more.

A good way to make a man afraid of losing you is never to contact him every day, but to keep a proper distance with him, and there may be surprise.

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