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3 Reasons Why Guys Act Distant When They Like You? Psychology Today

3 Reasons Why Guys Act Distant When They Like You? Psychology Today

Guy’s love is not hidden, but when you feel his care and love, he deliberately acts distant from you, which makes you puzzled. (why guys act distant when they like you)

You want to take your relationship a step further, but you’re not sure if he really likes you.

This kind of situation is very common in the ambiguous period. Obviously, you all have a good feeling for each other, but when you feel wishful thinking, guys always come out to brush their presence. They give you hope and then let you down, so you will feel very upset.

So, why does he like you, but he deliberately keeps a distance from you?  

Maybe he was in the following situations.

 

01 Why Guys Act Distant When They Like You?: He has a high EQ

The most useful way to make someone who likes you fall in love with you more quickly is to arouse her emotions. Maybe the guy you meet knows this, so as a woman, you need to analyze his motivation.

If he really likes you, he just wants to get your attention and make you fall in love with him.

If you really care about him more and more and fall in love with him, it shows your usability and guides him to express his heart.

But if his affection for you is disguised, his motive may be just for fun. This kind of guy is hard to control. They are better at controlling each other.

If you decide to face difficulties, what you can do is to keep calm, analyze rationally, keep yourself “unavailable”, constantly stimulate a guy’s desire to conquer and guide him to put his emotional value into you.But if his affection for you is disguised, his motive may be just for fun. This kind of guy is hard to control. They are better at controlling each other.

If you decide to face difficulties, what you can do is to keep calm, analyze rationally, keep yourself “unavailable”, constantly stimulate a guy’s desire to conquer and guide him to put his emotional value into you.

But if his affection for you is disguised, his motive may be just for fun. This kind of guy is hard to control. They are better at controlling each other.

If you decide to face difficulties, what you can do is to keep calm, analyze rationally, keep yourself “unavailable”, constantly stimulate a guy’s desire to conquer and guide him to put his emotional value into you.

 

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02 Why Guys Act Distant When They Like You?: He has a low self-esteem

If you can feel a guy’s obvious affection for you, but he always acts distant from you at the critical time. Then this person is probably not confident.

It’s not that he doesn’t like you, but he likes you very much, and occasionally acts distant from you.

He is afraid that if he goes too close to you, he will expose his shortcomings and even express his wishful thinking and failure. What he is most afraid of is that if you are together, he can’t handle your feelings well, and you will leave at last.

The most painful thing in life is not to get, but to give up. So he and you keep such a distance, can meet his emotional needs, and he will not be hurt in the future.

Dealing with such guys is a long process. After all, it’s not easy to help one rebuild self-confidence. Women can only guide guys out of their comfort zone by constantly recognizing and showing weakness.

Mr. Wang: She is too good and has many followers, but what am I?

Every time he talks about this experience, Mr. Wang is still full of emotion. That was when he was in college, he met a girl through work-study opportunities. That girl is not only good-looking, her personality and character are also ideal types for men. After only a few contacts, Mr. Wang has been deeply attracted by the girl, unable to extricate himself.

For countless nights, he tossed and turned in the dormitory, unable to sleep. He kept asking himself: Should I chase this girl? Do I have the capital to pursue? Mr. Wang was not very wealthy since he was a child, and the clothes he wore as a child were worn by other people’s children. As for pocket money, there is no such thing in his dictionary.

So Mr. Wang has a low self-esteem in his heart. Even though he is a talent and knowledgeable, what does this count? He watched many suitors being rejected by her one by one, and he felt even more bottomless in his heart. Until later, after graduation, in a class reunion, Mr. Wang was asked by the girl why he did not pursue himself.

He smiled helplessly and told his true inner thoughts. But the girl told her that she didn’t care about it at all. As long as Mr. Wang could speak, she would definitely agree. After listening, Mr. Wang regretted it, but it was a pity that they both had their own families, and they could only leave regrets.

 

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03 Why Guys Act Distant When They Like You?: He’s testing you

There is a kind of people, no matter when and where they can maintain enough rationality. If you meet this kind of guy in this situation, you can cheer up.

Because the more rational the guy is, the more independent he is. The rational thinking makes his expectation of love too low.

Even if he has a good impression of you or even likes you, he will test you first. He has his own standard of judgment. After he confirms it, he has the next step.

And his next step is to stop loss in time or continue to pay, depending on the value this woman brings to him.

If you also like this guy, you should grasp his psychological needs and enhance his value. When he confirms, the estrangement is over.

 

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